The pressure, whether that is to do your best or to be perfect. We are all surrounded by the pressure that life throws at us. There is pressure to get a job, look a certain way and to act a certain way. I feel younger people experience a great deal of pressure, especially whilst going through school. Teenagers are so vulnerable, they are going through a massive change whether that being going from year nine to year ten. It’s unavoidable. They are exposed to a great deal of pressure throughout their whole school experience. I feel, myself as I look back I can see when I was in school sitting tests, exams and being pressured to pass every test because if I didn’t, I wouldn’t be able to do the things I wanted to do. As a teenager you can become unaware of the pressure that is put on you. But also we put so much pressure on ourselves because we see so much on social media.
I mean, don’t get me wrong social media can be an amazing place, you can connect with people who you haven’t seen in years, post events that mean a lot to you, for yourself to look back and think of how blessed you are to have been able to experience that event in your life, sometimes good but some bad. The down side to it is that you expose yourself to things that mess about in your head, for example you go onto Instagram and flick through your feed, you can see that Saffron has just uploaded a new picture in a glorious outfit, her makeup flawless, her figure to die for and her smile is just perfect. The reality of this photo is that she doesn’t just upload any sort of photo to her profile, she’s planned to take a new photo which has taken her more than one take to get the perfect angle, she hasn’t just got up, put on a pair of joggers and a hoodie with greasy hair and a spotty face, because she knows that no one will like that, we only want to see the perfectly curled hair, with perfect pink lipstick, nothing out of place, just perfect. That word perfect.. it just rolls around Jessica’s mind because she feels she isn’t like Saffron, she thinks she should be like Saffron because from what she has seen, Saffron has everything that Jessica wants. She gets hundreds of likes and comments on any photo she uploads. I’m not saying that Saffron is an unrealistic figure I’m saying that people need to realise that this whole social media thing isn’t as perfect as you think. Social media is such a toxic place, you’ll find yourself on there for hours, going through peoples accounts, filling your mind with the unrealistic social media lives, it makes you feel like you need to look this way to be accepted by other people.
Can I just say, that you’re perfect the way you are. You don’t need to change anything about yourself just to fit in and feel like people will like you. Only change if you are doing it for yourself, not for other people. I promise, if you feel you don’t fit in, in time you will find people who accept you for who you are, whether you’re weird like me, you will find people who love you the way you are. I understand people are cruel, and if you know someone who may need a friend, be that person to speak to them and spend times getting to know them because you can change your opinion on that person once you give them your time.
Thank you all again for the ongoing support of my blog, I feel that on here I can express on what I’m passionate about. I have so much I want to say, I’m trying to find structure to this page. I’m forever grateful for all the love you all are showing me. Take care of yourselves.